Death and life are in the power of the tongue..." – Proverbs 18:21

Have you ever paused to consider how your words shape the atmosphere in your home?

Think about this:

• When was the last time you told your spouse, “I’m proud of you”?

• How often do you say, “Thank you,” even for the little things?

• When conflict arises, do your words tear down or build up?

Your words carry weight. They can either:

• Heal or hurt

• Uplift or discourage

• Draw you closer or drive you apart

Let’s try this: Fill in the blanks.
(Yes, actually pause and do it!)

1. One thing I appreciate about you is ____________

2. I love when you ____________

3. You are so good at ____________

4. I’m grateful for the way you ____________

Now, text it. Say it. Write it in a note. But speak it. Today.

Here’s a simple challenge:
Speak at least 3 life-giving statements to your spouse today. Not flattery, but truth. Speak their value, their effort, their heart.

Bonus tip: When your spouse messes up, pause and pray before you speak. Ask: “Will this bring life?” If not, rethink it.